The Virgo men, on the other hand, have an issue with making decisions at all.I’m not talking about waiting until you get all the facts; I said that’s going to happen. At some point in time, you have to make the decision.
The Virgo, on the other hand, seems to be content about waiting for this perfect world, this perfect combination, this perfect storm that’s really not going to happen.
So, when you have this interplay, you basically have a clash of fire and ice.
You have fire on the side of the Cancer, and this ice-cold reluctance to do anything on the part of the Virgo.
In fact, her decisiveness often gets the better of her.
What do you call a situation where you just charge in to a deal, to a relationship, to an arrangement, or to employment, without having a clear idea of all the facts that you’re dealing with?
I’m not, of course, talking about obsessing about every single detail like a Libra, so you get stuck in analysis paralysis, but I am talking about having just enough facts that you can make a common sense and logical decision.
Unfortunately, the Cancer woman is so driven by the concept of being right, and most importantly, looking right and strong, that she is willing to barge into almost any kind of situation.
This is why it’s very common for Cancer women and in many cases Cancer men as well, to fail to live up to their fullest potential.
If they are in a company, they probably will make it to middle management and go no further.
If they are in class, the probably will make it to the upper quarter of the class, and not get any further. They think that all they need to do to get to where they need to go is to just put more gas.
Basically, push the metal to the pedal and make it happen. The woman in the relationship has no problems making a decision.